Personal Thoughts, Personal Space

Decided to pen down some personal thoughts of my passed year experience in life. Since is a beginning of a new year 2013. Life is so ironic and kind of having its' own way. Everything is already fated when one is born. Little can be done but one can choose to live life to the fullest with own mindset. Why are some people tend to be jovial and seem to have good life? and why some are always envy of others? I realized that all these happen depending on how one perception towards life. If one is contented with his/her life, he/she will be happy and optimistic in every aspect. Even during downturn, he/she will still be strong and put up a happy facet and go through it. However, if one always compares and envies of others, he/she may not lead a good life and will not feel fulfilled. As even the good things happen to him/her, he/she will never see it. 

There is no perfect life but there is good life and bad life. If you are happy for others that are much better than own self, treat others' good lifestyle as a role model - perhaps you can transform a better life for yourself. If you have negative thoughts of people's good things and take it as competitive, then you will build unhappiness towards them. Eventually, you will distant yourself from them so as not to know how good their life are. So that you will not disgruntle of your own life. By being ignorant is not the solution. Is best that one sits back and recall how he/she leads his/her life - whether one is picky?stubborn? pessimistic? ignorant? and so forth...all these can derive to your existing life. 

Is best to have self confidence, self liking and respect to others. Be happy to others and correct oneself in order to have a better life like the others that one treats as role model. Every one has the good part and bad part. Just that individually different. So, there is no specific comparisons/guidelines as to whether one is good or bad.but one has the rights to choose how one wants to lead one's life. 

So, please wake up!! And embrace others' good life and thoughts. Understanding will give you happiness. Stop comparing and stop jealousy :) Importantly, do not take your friends/family for granted. As too much jealousy, will make people close to you distant from you. Not everyone will respond to you when you are in good spirit to reach out to them since you have treated them coldly when you are jealous of them or ignore them to shield you away from knowing how their lives are leading. 

Some people choose to reach out to their so called rivals when they have something good happens to them. They thought only share good things of themselves and shield bad things away from their rivals. Pride & dignity are not weighing in such way. Bad things may be a teaching to others. So pals, please do not have narrow minded, okay?! :) Lead life to the fullest - no matter what!! :) :) There is no time for grudge. Everyone has a different lifestyle and everyone has different liking and wants and needs. So, do not feel down or belittle of yourself.

Everything is sharing in life. How do you want to choose your life be? Sit back, calm down and THINK!

Goodday!